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When Death Comes Too Soon
I was recently asked to do my very first funeral service. As a Youth Pastor this is the type of thing you pray will never happen but inevitably does. No one likes death. Even for hardened criminals who...
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The Pissed-Off Christian
I have come across too many nice Christians, too many people who want to act like the Bible and the Christian life are nice and happy, all the time. I will be the first to admit that I struggle with...
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The Hope-Stealers
I was talking with a young guy the other day about the lack of responsibility that is so prevalent these days, especially with guys. His answer kind of surprised me, though it probably shouldn’t have....
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The Tractor or the Shovel?
All day long Bob had struggled with digging this stupid ditch. As the sun baked his skin, beads of perspiration dripped down his face. He was sore and worn out. As he looked at his progress, Bob...
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The Comparing Contest
I think that competition is just something men do. It’s ingrained in us. And that can be a very healthy thing but sometimes we can take it to some unhealthy lengths. For example, say I pull up at a...
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Who’s Your Daddy?
Randy, a close friend, lost his father to the ravages of old age recently. He had made several visits to see his dad over the 8+ years I’ve known him. They talked during his visits and during phone...
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Going Beyond Bouncing Your Eyes, Part 1: Guarding Your Heart
Lust is a problem for men. I hope I didn’t lose anyone right off the bat. You don’t have to look very far to see evidence of this. We live in an increasingly hyper-sexualized society that uses lust...
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Choosing Light over Darkness
I think when most of us become a Christian we are like babies and we really don’t what our new identity is or how to live out that identity. New believers are especially vulnerable if they are not...
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Heart of Gold
“First to arrive, as usual,” I thought to myself as we pulled into the driveway. The homeowner must have been anticipating the sound of our tires on the gravel driveway. He came out the side door, his...
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Will You Cut Down Trees Yielding Bad Fruit?
Luke 3:9 tells us that “[e]ven now, the axe is laid to the root of the trees. Every tree therefore that that does not bear good fruit is cut down and thrown into the fire.” Jesus was very clear...
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How denominations helped me stay an atheist
“Three different churches in less than half a mile. Each thinks they are the true church and all of them disagree with each other. What a sad joke! They must be really confused since they all have the...
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Asking for Directions
I was on a business trip recently, and part of the fun for me during any trip is scrolling through Google Maps to see the local sites and landmarks, and also how to get into and out of a destination....
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Should atheists get Christmas presents?
Atheists don’t believe in GOD, that’s pretty simple to figure out. Take it a step further and you’ll see many have done everything possible through the courts and legislative action to “free”...
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God, Gays, and Advice
On March 26 and 27, the United States Supreme Court heard oral arguments on gay marriage. The cases addressed Proposition 8, which barred such unions in California, and the Defense of Marriage Act,...
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The Will Of God
“All men were created to lead but we need somebody to lead us.” Lecrae raps this lyric in the song “Just Like You.” It’s a song about choosing who to follow. He begins the song reminiscing about his...
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Changing the barrel
Ancient warriors had armor-bearers, modern warriors have assistant gunners (and ammo bearers if the carry an M-60). Few people ever know the value of teamwork to the extent that a fighting man does. An...
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The Cardinal
I watched the tree snap in two, and all I could think about was how much it was going to cost me. A powerful pop-up storm had surged through Atlanta. The winds were particularly strong. Strong enough...
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Stay Connected
I have the best job in the world. I get to hang out with teenagers in 24/7 ministry as a “job.” However, in order to do so I had to move. Once I accepted the offer, I began to psych myself up not just...
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Real Men Recover
Alright, men. Take a knee, drink some water, and take a break. I’m going to break something down for you. Recently I took a break from several ministry obligations including The Blog of Manly. Our...
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What Would Jesus Do?
I have to say I’m glad that I don’t see many WWJD? bracelets any more. About 20 years ago it seemed like anybody who wanted to be considered a “serious” Christian was wearing one. Though the bracelets...
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